How Can You Get Him To Open Up?
by a Psychic Advisor on Keen
Has he been brooding lately? A little too silent? Is the spark going, going, gone? Love needs two-way communication in order to stay healthy, but don't fear; astrology can help you learn how to coax your man into opening up, and becoming, once again, the loving, communicative partner you can trust.
Read about your man's Astrology sign to understand what he needs from you in order to be ready to tell you how he feels.
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Aries -- When your Ram shuts down, his quiet
state is actually a coping mechanism. An Aries usually responds to deep feelings
of vulnerability by running away. You can coax him to open up by actively
showing that you are non-judgmental about what he's feeling and going through.
Avoid talking about past mistakes at all costs. Discuss the future as a pleasant
topic for best results.
Taurus -- If you really want your Bull to open up, you'll have to be willing to weather an outburst or two. Taurus men often find outlets for their inner turmoil in material things, whether that means working on a favorite car or diving into the art of home-based beer brewing; one of your priorities should be not taking your man away from his hobbies. The best time to talk to him is after he's had a nice day puttering out in the driveway or down in the basement.
Gemini -- When your Gemini man is brooding, he can be colder than the North Pole. The problem is how sudden this winter chill can be. By the time you realize your guy has shut down his responses, it may have been going on for a lot longer than you'd realized. Talking about the past, then, becomes difficult, so engage your man in discussions of an optimistic future to break the impasse.
Cancer -- The Crab needs space and tends to retreat into his shell after real or imagined slights. The best way to cope with this is to focus on your own goals for a day or two and then remind your man of your availability to help on those "special projects" of his. After some time alone, Cancer men are always ready to work together and emerge from their shell for the woman they love.
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Leo -- When the Lion stops roaring, the silence can be deafening. Your Leo man may brood and seem distant, but your role in his drama isn't supposed to change. If you behave according to the script of your relationship, he'll snap out of the funk and readjust to everyday life. Do not create or heighten any Leo-related conflicts by allowing melancholy to become melodrama.
Virgo -- If your Virgo mate won't open up, it's likely that his inner self-critical dialogue is beating him down. Your love and affection need to be made apparent, but don't fall into the role of caretaker, either, as your Virgo's analytical mind will decode your behavior as subservient. Stand proud to be his partner and be the light that shines in on him.
