there is quite a few threads about them too in the forum if you browse you'll find a few easily
I wrote as much as I could there as much as I know

The can be shady and jealous..a little insecure perhaps but if you give them what they need, respect, loyalty and admiration...(not too much) and leave a little to the imagaination..then they are sure to be content. They can also dislke Brash change and love routine and orderliness in their lives. Great matches are pisces and cancer. You have to be tolerant to put up with a scorpio, they Like to be in control and nearly almost always will get revenge on you if you hurt them, they give as good as they get, so it's best to stay on their good side, as they can have a real nasty sting in their tales. They are generous, kind, and very funny, I love scorpios, but they can become resentful if you don't make them feel like you truly love them. good luck :)

I know a lot of male scorpio's... I have learned many things about them over time (I also have some in my family)

They have hearts of gold but at the same time they are very flipside, meaning you would think they are all bi polar (The Scorpio Women I know and have met are the same, I'm sure it does not apply to all) or have serious split personalities and edge on the psychotic side..

S E X, S E X, S E X, is all they think about I swear!!

They are in general good people but yeah.. watch out for that crazy side!! They will sting if they get angry!

All I can say is good luck to you just be careful what you say to them, for they are extremely sensitive and will take things the wrong way quickly and are NOT quick to forgive

Sag. is so kind and forgivingand notices this in others fom my experence. I always like them.
Hereis the rub. Scopio men are generally not forgiving I believe they come in come in two types both ****. Highly spiritual or almost sadistic as they can kill you as well as themselves with that tail.
Very silently controlling and obsessive about some matters.
I believe I never heard a voice of vengeance as loud as my sister's friend a female Scorpio whom I like very much but this may be do to knowing her since I was a child.
It was so loud and angry I thought my brothers could be outrageous but this was one for the books, will never forget and in my mother's house, (out of control).
They made up but they were not lovers ever.
I recent;y dated a male Scorp. I also take into account he was a pig in Chinese astrology and the baby in his family order. Not good for a middle child who has shared everything already, so ask about this too.
He was a very fat in the middle twice my weight, not normal for Scorpio usually lean especially for their partner.
We had our second date sleepover planned way in advance for 2 nights

Every thing went very well, however he had a hidden agenda to make it 1 night, which I was tuned into but content to stay loose about my own intuitive feelings.
He was a dark horse type of Scopio. A total baby and very rude when it all ended over me taking too long to take off the make-up he enjoyed me wearing. I do not know what that was about. He wanted me to snuggle. I had to do my nightly rituals so I would look like a human with normal breath.
He went cold as if I were a dog who did not come to bed on time, so he actually said at 2AM either leave or come to bed . This was not about *** we already had that twice.

Not into my pleasure at all. A taker and wanted me to pick up dinner out that night.(second date)
I said no ! This is not your birthday . If you would like I will come here the evening of your birthday and take you out , he lives 3 hours away. I gave him a beautiful cake that I planned for a month. he would not even cut into it.
The next morning. (I do not drive 3 hours at 2 AM, angry no matter what.)
He gets up the next morning and says, You should go". "We are not compatible ", well you could have taken a baseball bat and thrown me across the room. Please be careful and guard your soul. They are the most lethal of all the zodiac signs. Try to get all the other info as well , birth year, family order and his birth time if you can, this will give you great insight into how to reverse their poison. I know the*** is great but at what price ?

Thanks for the insight ladies.
Valentina- Wow I cant believe someone would do that... Thats horrible!! Sorry that happened.. Have you heard from him since or did you forget about him?

KarmaComa- I really like the fact that you're a Sag and you date Scorpio Men.. So Both times This scorpio and I have seen each other I have been showing my wild rockstar sag side. Haha. He seems to like it for some reason... I think he has that rockstarness to him. I kinda like that for a change because thats who I am.. I dont like having to be on my best behavior. I just dated a Cancer who couldn't handle me. .. it was an absolute disaster, but I am not going to change..

I have not slept with this guy yet.. We came close one night.. but it didnt happen. I barely know the guy. I want to get to know him more. One weird thing I've noticed is whenever he asks me to go out with him, I always have something else going on. When I tell him that, he seems to cut off the conversation.. Like he's mad or something. Its not that I dont want to hang out, I'm just not going to drop my plans in order to do so... I don't do that.

I'm trying to be careful here.. Ive made too many mistakes in the past. I really appreciate all of your stories and experiences, Please continue sharing... It helps.